A Landmark Ruling: When Absence Can Nullify a Marriage

The Supreme Court, in a landmark decision, ultimately declared their marriage void due to Alfredo's psychological incapacity, ruling that his decades-long, unjustified absence from the marital home, coupled with his infidelity and lack of support, demonstrated an inability to fulfill essential marital obligations as defined by the Family Code.

5/27/20252 min read

Marriage, at its core, is a covenant built on shared life, mutual support, and unwavering presence. But what happens when one spouse simply... disappears? Not physically in the sense of being lost, but emotionally and functionally absent from the marital home for decades, shirking all responsibilities?

The Supreme Court of the Philippines recently tackled a case that sheds a powerful light on this very issue, offering a crucial interpretation of "psychological incapacity" under the Family Code.

The Case: Leonora and Alfredo's Decades-Long Silence

Leonora and Alfredo were married in June 1984. As with many relationships, time brought changes, but in their case, these changes proved to be destructive. Alfredo's behavior shifted dramatically: he withheld financial support, treated Leonora as a mere housemate, not a wife, and engaged in extramarital affairs.

The final straw came in 1994 when they separated. What followed for Alfredo was a series of subsequent marriages, while Leonora was left in a legal limbo, her original marriage still technically intact. She sought to nullify her marriage, but faced hurdles at the Regional Trial Court and the Court of Appeals.

Undeterred, Leonora elevated her case to the highest court. In a significant decision penned by Senior Associate Justice Marvic M.V.F. Leonen, the Supreme Court's Second Division finally nullified the marriage between Leonora and Alfredo.

The core of their ruling? Alfredo's decades-long, unjustified absence from the marital home was deemed compelling evidence of psychological incapacity to comply with his essential marital obligations.

Understanding Psychological Incapacity

Under Article 68 of the Family Code, spouses are unequivocally obliged to:

  • Live together

  • Observe mutual love, respect, and fidelity

  • Render mutual help and support

Alfredo's actions—his infidelity, his utter lack of support for his wife and children, and most notably, his prolonged and unjustified disappearance from their shared life—clearly demonstrated a profound inability to grasp and fulfill these fundamental duties of a husband and father. His absence wasn't just a physical separation; it was a symptom of a deeper, rooted psychological inability to commit to the very essence of marriage.

Why This Matters

This ruling offers a vital precedent for those trapped in marriages where a spouse has effectively abandoned their marital responsibilities without a formal dissolution. It highlights that psychological incapacity isn't always about overt mental illness; it can manifest through persistent, grave, and inexplicable failures to perform essential marital obligations.

For many, a spouse's long-term desertion feels like an invisible chain, binding them to a defunct union. This Supreme Court decision provides a clearer path to freedom, recognizing that a decades-long, unjustified absence is not just a breach of contract, but can be a powerful indicator of a fundamental psychological inability to enter into and sustain a truly marital relationship.

It's a reminder that marriage requires presence, both physical and emotional, and that the law recognizes the profound damage inflicted when one spouse is simply... not there.

Disclaimer: This blog post provides general information and should not be considered legal advice. It is always best to consult with a qualified legal professional for specific situations and legal guidance.